Membership · Launching October 2026

Community doesn't form in one night.
It forms in the showing up.

BeHeld is moving from one-off evenings to a recurring practice — memberships launch in October, with pay-per-event continuing alongside.

Three ways to belong — one casual, one committed to the practice, one for depth.

Free Tier
$0 / month
$65 per event

Come occasionally, no commitment.

  • Attend any open event at $65/ticket
  • Full event experience: matching, activities
  • Pick 3 to see again
  • General community access
RSVP for an event
Premium
$129 / month
2 events + 1 facilitator-led

For depth.

  • Everything in Membership
  • Unlimited picks
  • 1:1 curated introduction included monthly
  • 1:1 curated follow-up experiences
Join the waitlist
Side by side

What's included in each tier.

Free Membership Premium
At the event
Attend events
Curated activities + small group format
Pre-event snapshot of your table
Pick 3 to see again
Between events (continuity)
Two events / month included
Pick 5 to see again
Matching that remembers you across events
Member-only cohort channels
Depth
Unlimited picks
1:1 curated introduction included monthly
1:1 curated follow-up experiences
Membership · Launching August 2026

Be among the first members.

Join the waitlist for first access and founding-member pricing when Membership and Premium launch.

Join the waitlist →

Takes 2 minutes, with emails only when there's something real to share.

Membership questions

The things people
ask first.

When does Membership actually launch?

October 10th, 2026 — we're using the next few months to run pilot events and refine the recurring experience, with waitlist sign-ups getting first access and founding-member pricing.

Can I still come if I'm not a member?

Yes — Free Tier means no commitment, just $65/ticket for the full event experience. Membership unlocks continuity across events, priority signup, and member-only channels.

What does "matching that remembers you" mean?

At the end of each event you pick people you'd want to see again, and if they pick you back we re-invite both of you to future events.

What's a facilitator-led event?

A deeper, smaller version of BeHeld with a trained facilitator running the room — reserved for Premium members, available less frequently than standard events.

Can I pause or cancel membership?

Yes — membership is month-to-month, pause or cancel anytime, because you decide the pace.

Want to try BeHeld first?
Come to an event.

The best way to know if Membership is for you is to be in the room once.

See upcoming events →
$65 · Limited to 20 people